I just finished doing the cleaning up of the cache. Took a chance it wouldn't hurt, may help and if it did hurt, I don't seem to have much to lose right now.
As far as moving her out, it is a project game and it would mess up the project and that basically would ruin my family. I have to have the connections and the family tree.
I can try saving them to the bin and moving them to another house, but I would think it would save her stuck, but worth a try.
As for active family, I have switched to other families within the same town, doing my "seeding" . I take townies, married to each other then have them have children so my sim family's children will have someone to marry. The stupid story progression is having couples from sim townies, but no children.
It didn't seem to help. This family has had problems from the beginning, in the first town a couple of the sims had been swallowed as if in quicksand. You could hear them yelling, but no green diamond. Most of the time I just sent to them to a dresser and they would show up. That time it didn't but what saved them was when the car came to pick up the husband to take him to work, (bus for daughter to school) they showed up and then came home fine.
Can't travel to other countries, none of the sims in the family show up.
Now having more problems with this family and the other family. Started a new thread, probably should have added it to this one.