Hi,
I overreacted and fired my butler when I found out my wife wanted an affair with him. I didn't put into consideration that he was an old friend of my sim and his pets, that he saved my sims by extinguishing at least 5 major house fires, gave me a large dance mat at my wedding and always prepared outstanding quality meals Etc. when I saw how sad he was to be fired - he was weeping a bit before embracing my sim before he left broke my heart
I unfortunately saved too so I can't go back :/
I tried hiring and firing other butlers until I would have him back but the game keeps giving me another butler each time.
The town is Appaloosa plains. His name is Terry Titus.