My sim has had a nightmare few days........

[sammymcgoff]

First of all, her eldest son was electrocuted while fixing the stereo. Then a few days later, her husband almost cheated on her..... with a male paparazzi! Her surviving sons got the witnessed betrayal moodlet and my simself had the betrayed moodlet, even though I managed to cancel the action. I had to get rid of the moodlets using cheats in order to prevent a divorce. So my question is how did the rest of the family get betrayal moodlets if I cancelled out the cuddle action before the husband carried it out?