I agree about this, some interactions shouldn't be made autonomous.
For others, I'm trying to retune them to severely limit autonomy rather than totally suppressing it, like for example reports of good sims trolling the forums. I currently have a mod in testing to make it more of "mean sim" specific interaction. It's a more complex kind of mod which simulates more natural behaviors than turning off autonomy for all traits. Testers are welcome, especially people who experience the issue mentioned above.
Right now, I'm creating more complex stuff but that asks more time to write, and I'm also working on a new blog (Sims 3 related) so I'll publish mods more slowly but they should be bigger mods. I'm looking for future testers of the retuned metabolism + retuned calories mod, something that should make weight and muscle gain and loss much slower and more natural. These are different modules that can be installed together or separately, but should be installed together for the best results. To people who experience weight and muscle gain issues with their sims, you can contact me and specify chat lifespan you prefer to play with, as I intend to make different mod flavors that are optimized for each lifespan. I haven't started writing this mod yet as I'm working on something else, but it would be nice to already have testers available before I have a first draft.